This site is by Reese L. Yant, the author of the newly published book Pants on Fire: Leaving my marriage to a sex addict and the journey back to me.
My intention in writing the book and in sharing my experience is to offer other women hope that life can exist beyond a partner’s addiction to pornography and sex.
Sex and pornography addiction isn’t just a convenient excuse used by politicians and actors when their affairs are discovered. For many women, this issue has invaded their homes and threatens their marriages and families.
For her entire 15-year relationship, Reese L. Yant’s* husband Mark was hiding a secret. He maintained a suburban double life- caring father, volunteer EMT and husband on the one hand, pornography and sex addict on the other. He lived both lives for decades and kept them physically separate—unsuspected by anyone, until one day, in a moment of strength, he told her.
What followed was a period of roller-coaster emotions as she attempted to make sense of what he confessed, uncover what he didn’t, and ultimately make some painful decisions. Follow her journey as she emerges from the shock and betrayal, navigates the mental health and legal systems, and finally awakens to the painful truth.
If you have encountered sex or pornography compulsion in your relationship and wonder if there’s help and hope; this book is for you.
Available now on Amazon and Kindle:
Beyond His Porn Addiction 
I just finished reading your book, and I can definitely relate to so many things. It’s sad how similar sex addicts are in their behaviors, excuses, patterns, justifications, and especially lying. Thank you for sharing your story.
Just downloaded the book and gonna start reading it. Let you know what I think after I read it.
Thank you! I welcome your feedback.